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You must be the captain of your own ship! If you truly want to be a massive success, you can’t allow yourself to be controlled by the outside world and the needs and wants of others. You have to take care of yourself before you can take care of the rest of the world. This takes some courage, but you can’t give what you don’t have. If you aren’t willing to love, nurture, and protect yourself from the crisis demands of others, you will get sucked into the mud (the problem) with them.

Yes, I am asking you to be selfish, but it certainly is time someone gave you the message that in today’s world of needy people and their problems, you have to have the discernment to take care of your life energy. Don’t let others suck the life out of you. You must take care of you first.

I want to give you some advice, which I encourage you to use with your employees, neighbors, friends, and people who want you to solve their problems. If you allow yourself to get into a crisis mindset with another person, you can’t help! To find creative, valuable avenues of action, you must be grounded, clear, and in a mindset that enables you to look for solutions. You won’t be able to see appropriate solutions if you are upset, freaked out, or frustrated, so don’t go there! Have discernment about how you spend your emotions.

The truth is, you need your energy to handle your own problems. Why do you think you can fix anyone else’s problems? Heads up—stop it! It’s not your job to be the rescuer of the world. Stop wasting your time and energy on things and people you can’t control.

I am challenging you to awaken the magic energies within yourself. You can learn to live without struggle and worry. Living your life by happenstance often leads to fruitless, powerless situations. Practicing the art of deliberate creation will bring you a conscious awareness of personal control and help you to optimize your choices.

Learning to manage your five energies-physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and financial, as a vital part of your “life currency” will bring you a wealth of happiness and prosperity now and in the years ahead. I invite you to learn more about the 5 Types of Energy in my video series, which you can find at In these videos, I share how to use your life energies in more effective and profitable ways.

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Lee Milteer is an Intuitive Business Coach, Best Selling Author, blogger, Award winning Professional Speaker, and TV Personality. She is the founder of the Millionaire Smarts® Coaching program for Entrepreneurs and is the author of eleven books and over a hundred audio and video programs. Lee is a regular guest on National TV and radio shows and has appeared as an Expert Guest on: CBS, NBC, ABC, FOX, CTV, QVC, PBS, and CNN.

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